How to spot liars?
Are you really weak in judging people? If you are discarded often by friends, business partners or your loved ones, then I will tell you how to judge a person. Body language says more than words. So learn some scientific theories about what people do when they are lying. Here are few of them:
1. No eye contact: Every one knows about this point. Whenever we feel that someone is lying, first thing we say to the person is to look in our eyes. We convey our maximum information through eyes; it is most difficult to lie to someone while looking directly into eyes. So, check out eyes while talking.
2. Rise in verbal pitch: Next point which can noticed easily is, when a person lie to you his/her voice will get high-pitched and noisy than his/her normal speaking pitch.
3. Pause while speaking: When a person lies, he takes more pause then normal. Because, when liar thinks and speaks it results in lots of pause. They have to make stories and tell. So, beware when you notice more pauses than usual.
4. Try to change topic: Liars generally try to change the topic or anything related to it. Keep on talking about same topic you feel the person is lying about, and try to find if he/she is trying to switch the topic or not. You will find he/she is lying or not.
5. Hiding face or touching noise: These are subconscious gestures, whenever person says lie, he tries to cover his face or touch noise.
I hope these points might help you to make a distance from liars and judge them correctly. Get ready to spot the liars near you.
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What if, the person has habit to look here and there while talking(no matter what we talk) and his pitch is always low, and he pauses after every sentence to convert the thoughts in the mind into language, and changes the topic frequently coz he gets bored by talking about the same thing for a long time……..
What if, these are the all time features of a person? does it mean that he don’t lie at all or it means he always lies??
If a person always have the same reactions while talking or listening then he is habitual to these reactions or he is really a bad listener. We just can’t spot liars in a single meet, it’s easy to spot if you already know his normal attitude while talking or listening.
A liar can be spotted by a fake smile liar person use some muscles of face to smile while a natural smile takes most of the Muscles of face
hey… bodylanguage is interesting…spotting liars is so..damn easy…
and females are expert How to catch liars…
This must be true cos I myself can’t look at the person when I’m lying.
But it’s not easy for me to spot a lying jerk. I’m not good at it.
What if a person has no feelings at all?
I mean, all the reactions a person shows is coz of the fear of getting caught, but if the person is having no feeling(no happiness, no sadness) then it really becomes a challenge to spot the difference in lies and truths of that person……
i am the person with no feelings. i never too happy and sad.
other person will never catch me i am happy or sad. this is called control your senses.
nice article
Hmmmm”
Am not sure about these individual Points, but I think I have been lucky to have this God gifted ability to spot liars and lies in it’s entirety…
I mean the overall information that my senses receive including Body Language does tell me what could be wrong…
Logical reasoning also comes to Play I think… maybe…
Hope this makes sense..
Bijay
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