How To Know You Are In Love ?
You all know what love is? But do you really think that you are aware of true love? I guess many people don’t know what true love is because that is the only reason that you keep on changing your partner and keep falling in love again and again. In true love you can never forget the person whom you love, even if he/she might have hurt or left you.
Love is a wonderful feeling; you might feel on the top of the world when you are with your partner, but how long this happiness remains? If this is true love, then it should never end and if it is infatuation then you will start getting bored with this relationship very quickly. There is very thin line between love and infatuation and you must know the difference. Love is much more than physical appearance and intelligence, it all about liking someone unconditionally, caring, providing lifelong commitment and trust.
Here are few ways which will help you to find out whether you truly love someone or not:
1. First person comes into your mind while you wake up: When you wake up, your mind is already filled with his/her thoughts like what he/she might be doing or what you will do for him/her. If you have achieved something, you want to let him/her know first. You plan your day in such a way that you can spend some time with him/her. And whenever you think about that person, you start blushing.
2. You want to share each and every thing: You want to be like an open book in front of that person. You want to disclose each and every secret in front of that person because if you are in true love, you never want to hide anything from the one you love.
3. You enjoy his/her company : Even if there are many people around you but your eyes keep on searching that special one whose company you enjoy the most. You never get bored or feel satisfied even if you talk for hours with that special someone; you want to carry on your chat forever.
4. You care about that person like a family member: You always take care about him/her. For E.g. is he/she driving slowly? Or having meals on time? If you treat him/her as a family member than you are surely in love.
5. Single message means a lot: Everyday you get many SMS, emails and phone calls, but then also you wait for his/her call or message. You keep on reading that message for hundred times, even if it just contains “HI”.
So, all techies there, if all these things happens to you also than stop using your mind and start using your heart because you are in true love.
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He he well said Ruchi.
I had all these symptoms in 2004 and I got married to that same gal in 2007
Love is wonderful and having someone you love in your presence is bliss.
First Comment! I suppose
Yeah you are first one to comment. Lucky you married same girl you loved .
Ruchi what wud u say, luv marriage or Arrange ? which is most successful
i have heard most of the relations, love marriage is not much successfull even after lots of understanding between each other.
Hey Suneel, you are so lucky man, congratulations
Hey Himanshu, don’t worry you will also get one soon
Thanks Himanshu. You donno what the pain had been in order to make her parents agree
Hi Ruchi,
You posting after a kind of Break or did I miss your Posts all this while??
I did see another Post yesterday I think but couldn’t visit to read.
My Take on Love can be seen at
http://bijayrungta.com/what-is-love
The Points laid down by you are indeed real indications of Love I guess..
Very well said…
@rungss on Twitter
Glad you liked it. I published post on relationship after a long time, I will try to write more on this
hi ruchi, this is just for u r remind that soon u have to change ur name as “multi talented”, and i have been seeing different different post and those are very nice , keep it up.
but im totally against of love and relationship coz everybody says love in blind and i say love and lovers both are blind , so blind cant do anything ,
others may like it ,
Thanks that was nice complement. Why you are against Love and relationship. Sometimes in life it is good to follow just your heart , it pains sometimes but then also its worth. Think again
They say – Fall in Love.
They truly say – Fall in Love.
Nice one
hey ruchi hiii!!!!!! well said, all u said its really true
Thanks Pallavi.Glad you visit Blog
hiii ruchi,
ur all points are true….
Thanks Garima.
Nice post. I wish it may also true in my life.
Wish you luck .
Thanks Ruchi
Well you have really given every possible sweet feelings of love. I have been in love for last 3 years, and still we feel that it was yesterday we saw each other, so fresh, and all these feelings keeps you going. Now there is a puja vacation, and I read her msg over and over, she is all over my mind even when I write blog. College Vacations are really painful for couples, though we love our parents also.
Thanks for the post.
Its important to leave apart from some time, its a sweet pain. It gives strength to love
Its really a good irony to say “sweet” pain. One thing I missed the “fights” we have and the time after that to approach her…. Hope fully there cannot be a complete book once written and published on defining Love. It is some thing that gets Updated daily like Windows , where each one of us have an unique activation key. No piracy here.
Very nice insights, love is really a different feeling.
Love is most beautiful thing.
Also, few more symptoms Like your heart beat increase. You listen and like every thing about your partner. You don’t find any bad things. You ignore others, when she is with you. You energy level increase. You feel very happy etc..
Don’t know what is love or true love. Many people wrote a lot in past.
Good one Rahul
Very much Yashraj Production’s post! Just kidding.
Whatever you have said here is 100% true and I think this is the perfect forum to share such info as tech guys are the most romantic people of this era. Suneel is the perfect example for this. Anyways Suneel I am so happy for you. Actually I can feel your emotions very much because that same thing happened with me as well. Just push the Year by one, i.e. make 2004 to 2005 and then 2007 to 2008.
Nice info Ruchi, made my day.
Tech guys may be romantic , but they always fail to show their feelings. May be I write next article for tech guy on ” How to show your feelings ”
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>> Tech guys may be romantic , but they always fail to show their feelings.
That could well be True… At least in my case it is… perhaps…
>> May be I write next article for tech guy on ” How to show your feelings ”
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That would be Great…
Thanks,
@rungss on Twitter
Nice info about love, all points are indication of love. Thanx for sharing it over here Ruchi. All commentators sharing their personal experience, what about you, we would like to know bddy.
NO Personal discussions here
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Nice one, just myself experience all these before.
cool
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By this post, i came to knew that i am not in love.
Oh u r missing g8 thing in life .:)
i only said that at present i am not in love with one.
i had many girl friends and i am unable to choose the best in them.
they all are saying that they loves me but i am not knewing whom to choose among them.
I use to think about a special someone and got married. They used and abused me for a few years and now I do my utmost to not think about her. Since then, I have not felt any love for anyone, I think I’m holding myself back as it took me many months to get over the hurt.
I do wish that some day I will feel for someone like I use to, but I’m not sure my heart will allow it.
Hope you get loving partner soon.
I guess I’m in Love then ! OMG !
Congs.
You will know that you are in love when all the initial excitement and physical longings disappear, yet you still love the other person. That is being in-love for life.
This is a beautiful post. LOve is when u can do anythin for the person in ur heart.
Very good points Ruchi! I have all those points and I am very happy with my partner.
hi its really a cute post which express pure love for the true lovers…..but i had one side love(3 yrs) with my dream girl… but now she married another person..anyway its ok…you just retweet my sweet days….Thanks for that……………
Thanks Manikandan.
When i read this post title. I just laughed out loud
, its so funny 
Hey this is interesting and enjoyable…I really loved reading it. These are very common symptoms to notice when a person is in love…btw how did u discover all these!!
Ruchi I love that you will write about anything. Not just blogging.
Glad you like the way I wrote. Keep visiting.
I am not in love at present
, but searching for a girl by singing
“Woh Ladki Hain Kahan”